Mardi Gras to Lent Thursday, Feb 26 2009 

It all went so quickly. Before we knew it, Mardi Gras was coming and in the blink of an eye it was gone. At work we had a Mardi Gras luncheon and I decided to make a King’s Cake.  I didn’t know what it was actually, and I envisioned making my super chocolate cake in a bundt pan, decorating it like a crown, and then taking that in.  But when I got on the internet to see what it should look like, I discovered that king’s cake is actually a bread with a baby (plastic of course) or a coin baked inside. kings-cake1

I found a wonderful recipe here and proceeded to make it.  In the process I learned that even when the jelly roll-up is done evenly, the bread doesn’t always rise evenly, so mine was not perfectly round.  I also learned that Mardi Gras colors mean something:  gold stands for power, green for faith, and purple for justice.

From Mardi Gras the move to Ash Wednesday is very quick and almost jarring.  From revelry (OK, we didn’t revel) to the austerity of Lent is a stark contrast.  It is a blessing from the Church that we have this time to re-evaluate our past year since Lent ended and realign our habits.  I know I have eaten more than I should and prayed less than I should and probably picked up other bad habits as well.  So with the memory of King’s Cake still fresh, I am looking forward to fewer rich foods and more time for quiet and prayer.  St. Teresa of Avila said Lent was the time for obrar y callar. That is to say, Lent is a time to act (do what we must, pray, etc. ) and to be quiet.  That will be my challenge.  How about you?

Archbishop Chaput on Nancy Pelosi Thursday, Feb 19 2009 

Tribute to a wonderful mother-in-law Friday, Feb 13 2009 

My mother-in-law Marie was a wonderful woman. She had many gifts and used them for the good of her family and the Church. She had a heart of gold, and she loved her husband, children and grandchildren without counting the cost. ralph-and-marie-with-ian She was good to me and welcomed me into the family as one of her own. She loved God and didn’t care who knew it. I used to be amazed at how she could strike up a conversation with a total stranger and end up talking about God.

One of the gifts which Marie had and used generously, was her ability as a seamstress. Not only did she make clothes for countless people, but she also made countless altar linens, tabernacle veils, banners (when they were the new church decoration), albs, amices, etc. Anything the local Catholic Church needed, she provided. After Vatican II when the altars were no longer arranged as they had been and the priests stopped wearing amices, etc., she rescued many of those items before they were thrown into the trash. I ended up with a very heavy bag of altar linens and have tried over the years to find a church that could use them. I had no luck until recently. We have an FSSP parish in our town, and finally these beautiful linens are once again being used. In this picture, the frontal on the altar was hand crocheted with thread in a cross and grape motif. The crochet was done by my husband’s grandmother, and his mother put the lace onto the linen. The work is exquisite, and was lovingly done. There was so much beautiful handwork on the various pieces I found in that bag, all done by my mother-in-law. I know she is smiling if she can see these things being used after over 40 years in a plastic bag.hpim21171

Marie died 9 years ago today.  I was privileged to hold her hand as she crossed to the other side.

Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon her.

Tribute to a wonderful mother-in-law Friday, Feb 13 2009 

My mother-in-law Marie was a wonderful woman. She had many gifts and used them for the good of her family and the Church. She had a heart of gold. She was good to me and welcomed me into the family as one of her own.  She loved God and didn’t care who knew it.  I used to be amazed at how she could strike up a conversation with a total stranger and end up talking about God. 

One of the gifts which Marie had and used generously, was her ability as a seamstress.  Not only did she make clothes for countless people, but she also made countless altar linens, tabernacle veils, banners (when they were the new church decoration), albs, amices, etc.  Anything the local Catholic Church needed, she provided.  After Vatican II when the altars were no longer arranged as they had been and the priests stopped wearing amices, etc., she rescued many of those items before they were thrown into the trash.   I ended up with a very heavy bag of altar linens and have tried over the years to find a church that could use them.  I had no luck until recently.

We have an FSSP parish in our town, and finally these beautiful linens are once again being used.  In this picture, the frontal on the altar was hand crocheted with thread in a cross and grape motiff.  The crochet was done by my husband’s grandmother, and his mother put the lace onto the linen.  The work is exquisite, and was lovingly done.  There was so much beautiful handwork on the various pieces I found in that bag, all done by my mother-in-law.  I know she is smiling if she can see these things being used after over 40 years in a plastic bag.

Of Babies and Old Friends Sunday, Feb 8 2009 

proud-grandparents-and-old-friendsToday was a special day. We witnessed a Baptism in the Tridentine Rite. There are numerous prayers and rituals associated with the Rite that I had either neither seen, or had just forgotten. There was the “Churching” or bringing into the Church of the mother and child after the Baptism. There was the dedication of the child to our Blessed Mother, done by the father of the child. It was all very rich. What made it even more special, was the fact that the baby is the grandchild of some friends from our past–the early ’70s to be exact. Even neater is that their grandchild, Thomas, is only 11 hours younger than our latest grandchild, Thomas. To top off the celebration, Pat and Armond were celebrating 40 years of wedded bliss. We catch up with them next January!